Most people, when they hear the word panini, think of a pressed sandwich. Not many would assume that it can refer to people as well. The Panini Generation describes the large number of family caregivers today who are tasked with supporting both aging parents and children of their own. Now more than ever, this generation is facing an increase of pressures and obligations due to a combination of things. Economic and societal uncertainty, career demands, and social commitments are just a few additional forces that the Panini Generation deals with. At least 11 million Americans are included in this group.
Various surveys have been conducted throughout this group and the statistics are astounding. According to Home Instead, 48% of them explain that they’ve been forced to cut back on personal and travel expenses, 23% have had to quit a job, 59% feel they’ve been passed over for either a promotion or raise, while 48% admit that they’ve been warned by their employer that their position was in jeopardy.
The pandemic hit these adults especially hard. Approximately half report that COVID-19 made it harder to juggle everything, and nearly two-thirds have no idea where to find help. Fortunately, a company called Home Instead is here to help. They offer not only in-home assistance for families, but also share tips and information with the general public.
Home Instead explains that taking a few tasks off a caregiver’s plate can help drastically. Not only does it give them time to recharge, but it also provides extra time for them to catch up on other activities. The company suggests that people either invite their kids or parents on outings, or to simply offer them rides. Other options include delivering care packages or meals. Sometimes moral support is the best route; remaining patient and empathic is important.
Home Instead is an organization working under a worldwide franchise that was founded in 1995 in Nebraska. They employ individuals that are passionate about helping others. The pandemic hit caused severe staffing issues for the company, so they’re still searching for potential applicants who want to lend a hand. No prior training is required because they offer some. Each case is different, but employees typically meet with elderly parents during the day and help them with whatever they need. Whether that be bathing, cooking, helping with medications, or transportation, Home Instead has families covered.
Gorham has had its own office since November of 2000, run by Bill Jenks who was recently interviewed. His biggest piece of advice for families with aging parents is to begin having the difficult conversations early.
“We want to encourage kids to start discussing with their parents how they want to age and what that may look like,” Jenks said. “What often happens is the conversations get put off until the parents really need care, and then there’s a big conflict over it.”
Finding elderly care options can be expensive and stressful, but Home Instead aims to be as accessible as possible. For more information, visit their website www.homeinstead.com or at their office located on 502 Maine St, Gorham Maine, or call 839-0441.